وانا صغيرة لما كنت أسمع ان اثنين قراب لي تطلقوا كنت انصدم، وانذهل، واستغرب كأنَ واصلني خبر وفاتهم .. لما كبرت شوي ظل الخبر يصدمني بس مو بنفس الدرجة .. "الحين" ماكو شي قام يصدمني .. يعني حتى لو سمعت ان
"The most inseparable couple"
تطلقوا او حتى انفصلوا .. ما استغرب وتلاقيني متوقعة الموضوع، ليش؟ ليش كل اللي نسمعه في الراديو والتلفزيون أو حتى في القعدات العائلية هو عبارة عن تحلطم من الطرف الآخر؟ شنو السر يا ترى في تدهور العلاقات بهالطريقة؟
لدرجة إنني في نظرة سريعة حواليني استوعبت انني ما اعرف ناس سعيدين، يحبون بعض، ومستقرين في حياتهم الزوجية غير أثنين أو ثلاث حالات .. وماراح استغرب أبدا إذا سمعت انهم راح يتطلقون
والشي الغريب انني في معظم قصص الطلاق اللي صارت وقريبة مني سواء من العايلة او الاصدقاء .. ومو تحيز بس السبب غالبا ما يكون الريال ... واحد معقد ويمد إيده وما يعجبه العجب .. واحد متسلط ولسانه طويل ولعبي .. واحد مل ويبي يغير بعد ما صار عنده كوكش يهال .. واحد تزوج على مرته ومو راضي حتى يعطيها حريتها بالطلاق .. وووو وانا ما اعفي المرأة هني من المسؤولية بس هذا اللي شفته في التجارب اللي صارت حواليني
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أمس سمعت تعليق من وحدة تقول .. "اكتشفت ان الزواج مؤسسة فاشلة جدا" .. وجهة نظري الشخصية انها ممكن تكون مؤسسة فاشلة لأن مؤسسينها ماعرفوا يديرونها .. والا انا غلطانة؟
تعليق آخر من مدونة عزيزة وقريبة تقول .. "ان الرياييل الزينين خلصوا" .. وانا اقول .. ويا ترى السيدات الزينين
موجودين وإلا هم خلصوا .. يعني الزبدة: العيب في منو، المرأة، الرجل أو فكرة الزواج نفسها؟
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فيلم شفته مؤخرا .. ماشي تمام مع البوست
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It's not comical or romantic, and it's certainly not a date movie. Sitting through it is almost as painful as going through a break-up.
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. Breaking up is hard. Before things get way out of control, take a step back and see if you can identify some of the warning signs of a bad relationship. answer (Hypothetically) these questions & send me back the answers & I'll tell you the result.
Or you can simply take the
test yourself & send me back your result
go to games >>> Are you heading for a breakup?
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1. You’ve been spending 24/7 with your man & he tells you he needs more space. You…
A- Plan a girl’s night out so he can have the boys over.
B- Divide the living room in two with duct tape and ask which side he prefers.
C- Hop a plan to Mexico and leave no forwarding address.
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2. For your birthday, he gives you a single rose and poem he wrote himself to express his love for you. You …
A- Ecstatic. The simplicity and the sincerity of his gift makes you feel his genuine devotion.
B- Surprised. You thought he would forget your birthday entirely.
C- Vengeful. You email the poem to all of your friends, making fun of how rhymed “beautiful” with “Tilt-a-whirl”.
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3. After a boys night out, he confesses that he got a lap dance from a stripper. How do you react?
A- You get angry. You get over it. His hinesty and you acceptance make your relationship stronger.
B- You tell him you understand, then calmly begin throwing his belongings out the window.
C- Black out! The next thing you know you’re in the back of a police car. You notice little bits of stubbly skin under your fingernails.
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4. He’s still really good friends with his ex and invites her over for dinner. How do you handle this situation?
A- You’re nervous, but come to find out that she’s a great person and that her and your man have a “brother/sister” sort of relationship.
B- You’re civil and don’t let a nasty word slip from your mouth the whole evening. The next day at the salon you talk smack about her for an hour straight.
C- You hire a private detective and discover that your boyfriend’s ex was a stripper. You mail a manila envelope of pole-dancing shots to her folks.
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5. When he met your parents, what was the first thing he said to them?
A- You have a lovely daughter and I feel so lucky to have her in my life.
B- Glad I ended up with the sane one in the family.
C- Your daughter is one hot piece of a**!
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6. You notice he has been spending more time then usual on the computer and suspects him of having an internet girlfriend.
A- You confront him with your fears and learn that he’s very faithful, but a little addicted to World of Warcraft.
B- You send vaguely threatening emails to anyone in his address book with a remotely feminine name, including his mom.
C- You were the internet girlfriend. “Partygrl81” was a fictional person you created to “spice things up” a liitle.
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7. You’ve spent three out of the last four weeks arguing with him. Your solution is …
A- Make an appointment with a relationship counselor and try to get to the root of the problem.
B- Drag him onto a talk show and get into a cat-fight with an audience member.
C- Get drunk and sleep with his best friends. All better!
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8. Your friend asks you for some romantic advice. You tell her …
A- Love and respect with good communication is the key.
B- You work hard to keep your relationship happy. After all, it isn’t easy making all the plans, cooking and cleaning up after him!
C- The four hour-long story about the time you thought your boyfriend was stealing money from your purse, but it turned out that it was that raccoon that lives in the crawlspace.
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9. What do you fight about?
A- We have silly, little tiffs but we always work them out.
B- He plays too many video games and he never helps out around the house. He doesn’t understand me.
C- The split for this job was supposed to be 50/50, but now he’s saying 60/40.
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10. Your guy keeps a journal and accidentally leaves it out on the coffee table.
A- You leave it untouched, respecting his privacy as you would expect him to respect yours.
B- You scour the journal for incrimination passages and become convinced he’s cheating on you after seeing a reference to a business lunch at Hooters.
C- After reading it from cover to cover and laughing at the sentimental parts, you use your ill-gotten knowledge to bend him to your will.
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وأخيرا
